Foot in Mouth again...

[Mother2many]

Well, my sister invited my son/g/f to go to her house with several of us this Fri. (would be over night) First of all, g/f said she had to babysit neice and couldn't...but my son could. THEN, it changed to they got a new kitten and can't leave it home alone! (GEE, heaven forbid!!) My son, won't go as he feels guilty leaving her behind.. They can't find a sitter,for this 3 month old kitten.

Soo, I had voiced my opinion.

For me, I have a hard time staying on the main discussion/topic, and I end up dragging other situations where it was "unreasonable" IMHO...

I'm on the shitlist again... over a damn kitten....

sounds like you're on the 'shitlist' due to your attitude/behaviour rather than the kitten... I'm assuming your son is an adult? Is he not therefore free to make his own decisions about whether he attends or not regardless of whether you deem the reason to be acceptable or not?

Agreed, it's nothing to do with the kitten.

I don't blame his g/f for not wanting to go if you always act like this. I can also understand why your son hasn't tried too hard.

That was to the OP btw!

Are you the one with the horrendous son's girlfriend that lived with you and they both took the piss big style for months on end?

If so just stay quiet, you will always be in the wrong.

Your DS's actions are that he is staying with this girl despite her behavior. All you can do is be there if/when they split for him. Even then only help him out if you have to and don't say anything about her in case he goes back to her.

Sorry if I have the wrong person!