H left six months ago on our 4th anniversary saying he had made a huge mistake in marrying me. He had an affair during the marriage during which he sent me texts clearly meant for her though he always denied it . (even one which was along the lines of "duffy said xyz cu later xx).
That relationship fizzled out but now he has got involved with someone else who he swears is just one mate amongst a crowd in a club he joined before the split. Most of his FB posts are liked by her and vice versa, the photos he posts are taken by her or are of her and she gets mentioned in his posts. When DD went to stay at xmas she went on every family outing and other family members tagged her as being with them.
It doesn't bother me but I do get a bit hacked off with him not admitting it as my extended family and friends (especially my DM) all see his posts and ask what's going on. Can't really see them all defriending him en masse at my request.
Last time he came on an access visit he phoned MIL to say that he wouldn't be seeing them that evening as he had been invited out. After he left I got a text to say he was stuck in traffic and didn't know how long he would be followed by half a dozen kisses. I sent one back saying he had sent the message to the wrong person only for him to claim it was for me but his predictive text was playing up. How stupid does he think I am?
Anybody got any idea why he can't just admit it? Our relationship is dead and buried. I have made it clear I don't give a toss who he is seeing but I do expect to be told when DD meets any girlfriends so that I can answer any questions that might come