Dealing with a smaller package...

[spangledboots]

I ended a long term relationship in September and since then I've met a few guys - nothing serious - I'm just having fun.

However, I met this guy back in November and we went on a date. I didn't really sense any 'spark' so didn't see him again but we stayed in touch as we have common friends. We'd only ever kissed before last night when we spontaneously met up again and I found myself feeling more attracted to him than I was previously. So...we were in bed and I discovered that he's got quite a small (I'd say 3.5/4 inches max) package. I felt a bit uncomfortable about it so we just kissed, cuddled and fell asleep.

I feel terrible now because I do want to see him again but I'm worried the sex will be awful. He's a lovely guy.

Any advice?!

Errr, grow up? Men with big willies can be crap in bed, as can men with small willies. It's more about the man than the willy.

What Foxtrot said.

I'd be surprised if he wanted to see you again!

Think the issue here is less the package size and more that there's no spark between you. Agree with FFS having had some experience of both size ranges - one guy with small package but huge enthusiasm / generosity / willingness to try new things and one guy with frankly scary willy which barely went in and he had a tendency to just slam it in as if that was enough. I know which of the two I preferred!

I am with Windsocks!

I have had this sort of conversations with my friends and we get to the conclusion that if a man with small willtbis mature and confident, the can be just as great trying other things!!

What I mean is - if I try suggesting positions/things we can do, will he figure it's because I think he's too small or will he just think I'm being enthusiastic?

I don't want to offend him.

With regards to the 'spark'...I think that's changed now, I've not stopped thinking about him all day.

If you say "do me from behind so it feels like your tiddler is a whopper" then he might take offence. If you bend over and shove your bum in the air I doubt he'll even worry.

He will know that he isn't the best endowed chap in the world, and he will know that most women aside from the shallow ones won't care.

I suspect you've made it into a bigger deal than it is because you are looking for an excuse not to date him. So just leave him to find someone who thinks that technique is more of an issue than size.