My oh and I in the past year (actually more like 25mnths) gave had sex 4 times. It's driving me insane :( I've tried talking to him but he leaves the room and just does not see the problem. I've tried backing off, bein nice etc nothing makes a difference. I've found if I text him he normally replies and at least it makes his listen. Or so I thought!
Sorry this is getting long...
Back in October he promised me he'd try harder with me, nothing has changed... :( all in all he is a good person it's just the lack of sex , well for me is the main issue.
I sent him the following message recently.
Maybe we need a break from each other :( feel like we always argue, mostly my fault... Im so stressed with work at the moment.. I want our weekends to be something to look forward to not dread.... I'm not sure how you feel anymore.. It's been so long since we were close, over 3 mnths ago you said you'd try harder. I'm sorry and feel so bad for saying this but I don't see any difference... :( :( :( just don't know what to do or say anymore cos I only seem to make it worse :(
I got no reply.. So 2 days later I asked him why he hadn't responded or mentioned it.. He said " because its stupid " and he walked off.... :( I'm so angry that he's brushed aside my feelings.... I just don't know where to go from here anymore... I don't want to leave him.. I just want to talk to him :( :(