Hi,
Ive been with my partner for just over a year now, we do not live together and I have children from a pervious relationship.
All in all my DP is a good person, he's generous with his money (when he has it which is rare) and he'll do almost anything to make me happy.
The truth is though I really dont think we're going anywhere, there is next to no hope of us ever living together as he cannot handle money properly and has no concept of saving up as he's never had to before.
On a less serious note he "turns me off" and I feel awful saying that, he's overweight and eats like a pig and he often eats before we go to bed meaning if we have sex (which is rare) he's grunting/hiccuping and burping all the way through it then sometimes he has to stop half way through for "a rest" and then wonders why Im not up for it 99.9% of the time.
He also doesnt take care of himself very well, he had a front tooth knocked out as a teen and now just has a stub there. He was supposed to go to the dentist to have it sorted out but he just left it and so now all around it is thick, black plaque and it really looks disgusting. He gets defensive if its mentioned though so I cant imagine him ever sorting that out. One of his mates was taking the mick last week saying he looked like the crazy frog (with the missing tooth) but then said his teeth were too yellow to be the crazy frog 
Last week he stayed with us for a week and I was getting so wound up by his habits but they all seem too petty to mention, for instance he had a bit of a cold and everytime he sneezed he just directed at the wall without putting his hand over his mouth and then just laughed when he heard it "hit" the wall (this is in my house). Another thing, we got some chips from the chippy and he started having a coughing fit (again from the cold) and he was coughing and spluttering directly onto his chips and then just ate them afterwards. He's also lazy, he stays in bed until gone dinner time if he's not at work and the bedroom stinks in a morning as he's constantly farting etc (probably due to the crap he eats).
He embarrases me saying the most stupid things to complete strangers, for instance he told one of the women at tesco that he'd been looking all over the place for condoms (might sound funny now but it wasnt at the time) and one time in Morrisons there was a sign covering another sign which made it look like it said "enlarge your p..." and yes, it looked funny but he went one further and pointed it out to the elderly checkout woman in front of a huge queue of people.
Please tell me if I am being petty? the more I see of him just lately the more wound up I get but when I think of what is actually annoying me it seems so daft and petty.
(I know I sound shallow going on about his appearance and I know I'm no oil painting but he does it to himself which is what annoys me)