Hi,
I have had this "best friend" since we were at school, We have grown up together, had children around the same sort of time and been each others bridesmaid you get the general picture...
Recently i gave birth to my first daughter, before this i used to see my friend every week or at least every other week but since she has been born i bearly even hear from her she made excused for a over a week when she was born as to why she couldent come to meet her, (one being i have to see my mum) this generally would be an exceptable excuse but they life two minuets from each other and she works with her family so sees them all week.
Generally she has shown no interest in us since my daughter has been born, as sad as i find this this isnt my real issue.
During this time when ive been left she has been trying and sucessfully with one taking my friends away from me- friends she has only met through me, their meeting up and not inviting me and i generly feel its being done on purpose to spite me.
Everytime i go on facebook she is all over everything my other two friends have been doing and giving them gifts etc.
I have spoken to one of my friends about how its upsetting me and she understood and wasnt looking to make a friendship her but the other one has been totally sucked in.
I dont know what ive done wrong, shes very much a keeping up with the jones type and we have recently moved and completed our family so perhaps its jealously but im just really hurt by the whole situation.
BTW- my daugher was born 4 months ago and she is now 3 months pregnant.
Feeling abit lonely and dont know if i should just call it a day on the friendship
Thanks for reading sorry if ive gone on!