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Sorry, but it's men and porn again...

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Coffeeessential · 21/01/2013 14:08

I know there have been discussions on this already, but I just wanted some advice...
My husband of 9 years (we also have an 8 year old daughter) has always looked at porn occasionally - we have talked about it and even though he knows I don't like it he still does it. I know he has very low self esteem at the moment as
he has put on a lot of weight, but this affects MY self esteem!
Apart from this, he's loving and affectionate, so I don't really know what to do - do I bring it up again, or not? Is it that much of a big deal if it doesn't affect his relationship with me? Is anyone else in the same situation?

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CogitoErgoSometimes · 21/01/2013 14:22

If it's no big deal do nothing. If it's affecting your self-esteem, ask him to stop. If it's affecting your relationship, tell him to stop so that you can both work on improving your self-esteem together.

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