Some of you ladies may remember me from Tuesday evening, I wrote about my quandry..."should I go back to my ex in france or stay?" I want to say thanks for your honest oppinions, it's a delicate subject with those that know me. I decided to halt contact with my ex and hopefully prove everybody wrong, i.e; he would contact me lots and assure me that he was father of the year. That never happened. Your advice was brutal but truthful, thank you. I need to leave that romantic notion of our Fench lifestyle and family behind andmake the most of what my baby son and I have here in Scotland.
I would appreciate any advice on maintenance however. My ex refuses to pay our child anything. It's difficult because of the difference in French/Scottish law. I had originally hired solicitors but the fee's are ridiculous. should i resign myself to raising my son alone and stopping contact with his father? or
should i persevere and put my own finances and studies to the side? (our son was supposed to visit his father in february whilst i finished my studies/exams)