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So was I wrong?

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Olderkidsaremine · 13/01/2013 19:02

Some might have seen my posts in general health re my dad, well he's not getting on great and was rushed to critical care last night and today I have basically told my boyfriend (feel to old to say that) that his poor me attitude re me not actually phoning him to enable to to feel part of my life! Because I was with dad most of the day - was selfish and that him not actually seeing me since I was told that after opening my dad up (on Wednesday) and then closing him up again without doing the removal of his lung for lung cancer, was not the way a good boyfriend behaved!

He has now ended it! We have being going out for about 6 months. We have known that dad had lung cancer since the beginning of December.

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foolonthehill · 13/01/2013 19:07

He sounds like someone who was never going to be able/willing to support and love you as you deserve. At least without him you can focus on those people who are there for you and who you can lean on

i am so sorry about your Dad
and I am sorry that your BF was not the man he should have been

fortyplus · 13/01/2013 19:10

He's a man who's scared of emotional ties. Sorry about your dad Sad

FuckityFuckFuck · 13/01/2013 19:10

He was a dick and you are best shot of him

I'm sorry about your Dad

Olderkidsaremine · 13/01/2013 20:45

Thanks everyone! Still bloody well hurts and I thought that things couldn't get much worse!!

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dequoisagitil · 13/01/2013 21:08

At least you know now what sort of guy he is. Best off out of it.

Sorry about your DF. Sad

MarilynValentine · 13/01/2013 21:16

So sorry about your dad Sad

And well done for speaking up. You're so well rid of your ex. That's a real deal breaker.

Take care of yourself Thanks

HilaryClinton · 13/01/2013 21:48

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