Hi all
I hope some of you love MNers can give me done advice regarding my sisters.
I don't live in the same country as them, last year I took my DS to visit the family. First time they have met him!
My sisters and I have always been very close! So this is hard for me. Durning my holiday sister 2 and I fell out over a very silly thing!! She had the opinion that she's always right and if you ever disagree with her she ignores you and becomes rather nasty ( she's 18 ) so typical childish behavior! She doesn't understand that everyone has the right to their own opinions!
After this fight sister 1 got involved! They started saying things about me to each other ( rather nasty things ) this of course set off a train reaction of major fighting!) it got to the point were we were in the same room but wouldn't talk!
All this happened a few days before my DS 1st birthday! ( sister 2 said to my friend she roundly be attending ) I was very upset! Tried calling sister 1 to see if she was still coming! No calls of txts!
On DS birthday they arrived very late, a quick hi and that was it. Sister 1 asked why I was upset and I said I thought she wasn't coming! She said I was being stupid thinking that ( I wasn't as when ever i called before fight the answered and always replied to txts) a little while later sister 2 storms in and she's she's disowning me :-( I asked why and she said you just made things worse!!! So on my DS's 1st birthday I'm in tears!
We didn't speak much at all durning the day! I cried a lot of it.
Left to come back to my country and we still haven't really spoken! I've tried with sending pics of DS and messages. No reply or if I do it's 1 liners!
I'm now going back on holiday so I sent messages to both sisters no reply. I'm very upset!
Do I just leave this?
Sister 1 is upset with me now as I told our DF something very personal about her! He had a right to know as everyone else knew. I only told him cause he heard me and my sisters mum talking about it.