i split from my husband just over a year ago, met a guy but later found out he had feelings for someone else after looking at his phone. Since then ive been wary. Met this guy a few months ago who i have know as a friend for 12 years. We started seeing each other and have now become an item. He told me in a heart to heart that him and his wife had many issues and they both had cheated. Fast forward onto today and I go on the pc and he has left his facebook open. There were messages to a girl (one that he had cheated to with his wife) saying do you want to go for a drink next Wednesday. He has told me in the past that this girl sometimes texts him but they are just friends. I asked him tonight what he had planned for next week but he said nothing. I told my best friend about this and she said I should go to the pub on Wednesday and 'bump' into him. What do others think. He is naturally quite flirty with females and this annoys me. He said he wants to be with me and his kids and be a family etc. As a single 31 year old this is a big thing for me so I dont want to be messed about. He is same age. Any advice please.