Where to start, maybe last night when i went to a lovely friends house for dinner, i ended up ruining her perfect dinner party because i over reacted, at a comment my husband made. Then i I'd blame the drink but that just seem's a cope out although i may have been able to hold my tongue if i'd not had a drink! I feel resentment towards my husband and i'm not sure if it's justified or if it's because i'm unbalanced, he work's hard and pay's for the house and bill's, but he does nothing around the house and never can see what needs doing, ie damp needs sorting, sagging ceiling may be a problem, i think these things should be sorted to avoid them getting worse, he just ignores them! This drives me nut's. I'm always trying to get things done, always seem to be on the go, and he has a great ability to be able to do nothing for Hours and day's, We need help in our marriage but he cant / wont see that, he say's it's me i nag all the while. God i could go on forever, is that moaning. Where do you begin to make thing's better?? As a result of last night i've txt my friend to apologise and heard nothing, not that i blame her tbh, Hubby stayed in bed until 1pm and we've not spoken a word! What a great way to end the year!!