Going to try and keep this short. Met a guy back in the summer 9mths after husband of 23yrs left. Seemed really nice, bit of a distance between us but he had own place so i went there. Out of the blue a month later he ended it by text saying not to contact him again! He said he had lost somebody close to him. I left it and then he contacted me 3wks later saying he missed me and needed to see me.
We met up for a drink and he said his last girlfriend of two yrs had suddenly died and he felt he couldn't date so soon after. He said she had died a month before he met me. Anyway we started meeting up again and had some good times, however he then dropped the bombshell and said she had actually died a month after i started seeing him!!! He had in fact been two timing her. I feel devastated for her and glad she didn't know. He says he feels awful about it but can't change it. So the relationship started on a lie...not good is it ! shall i run for the hills ? i feel after being lied to all my married life i have met someone no better :(