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Not good enough

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Shirleymitchell · 27/12/2012 00:09

The dreaded Facebook, sorry

my DH has had the same fb profile pic up. Since he first joined (6 yrs ago)
his profile pic is still the same, him and dc.
I have asked him twice in 2. Months to change it to one of me and him, he very rarely goes on but I dont feel that that

 It seems to me that I'm good enough to fuck and raise his kids and look after our house but I'm clearly not good enigjt to be on his profile pic.

I can't ask again because I feel that I shouldn't even have to ask! He's on mine before you ask :)

Merry Christmas :)

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MardyArsedMidlander · 27/12/2012 07:11

Or you could get a picture of your face with 'MY WIFE' tattooed on his face. So whenever he has a photo taken, there you are! Simple.

Hesterton · 27/12/2012 07:18

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FellatioNelson · 27/12/2012 07:27

You sound mad.

FellatioNelson · 27/12/2012 07:29

First time poster alert. Why do these threads ALWAYS come from FTP's? If you have NCed to post this thread then it's because you know full well you are being a bit menkle.

FellatioNelson · 27/12/2012 07:29

Arf at Mardy.

FellatioNelson · 27/12/2012 07:31

I've had the same photo on my profile since the beginning as well. I look really nice and young in it and I'm not changing it for any fucker.

ceebeegeebies · 27/12/2012 07:36

Wtf??

My profile photo is of me and DS2 and is 3 years old now. This doesn't mean that DS1 or DH are not good enough, just that it is actually a good photo of me (and those are very rare )

You sound a tad insecure IMO

Emmielu · 27/12/2012 07:38

My profile pic is a dog. Seriously love it's not the end of the world. Let's hope he tagged you in pics tho. That'll be the be all and end all otherwise.

Gingersstuff · 27/12/2012 07:44

Izzyizin I'm in, as they say on Dragon's Den. I've got 3 greedy mutts so we'd be sorted for patented Gingerizzy bows

bradywasmyfavouritewiseman · 27/12/2012 08:39

You have got to be kidding. Hopefully

ErikNorseman · 27/12/2012 08:51

PMSL
you have to be joking!

Anniegetyourgun · 27/12/2012 10:35

Well, if his profile also still says "single and looking for a nice woman to put into this picture" then you might have a point...

stifnstav · 27/12/2012 10:55

My profile pic is a photo of a man in a kebab shop. He had an amazing moustache.

I'm a woman by the way.

God knows how my DH would interpret this if he thought using your mind.

"My DW has a photo of a moustachio'd kebab-making stranger on her facebook. I put shelves and stuff up but am I not moustachio'd enough? Is my donner meat not grizzly enough for her?"

dequoisagitil · 27/12/2012 11:04

I had no idea I was announcing to the world that I prefer my cat to my dh by not having a picture of us as a couple up.

Of course, I do prefer my cat...

Allergictoironing · 27/12/2012 12:42

A friend of mine recently had MY photo as her profile pic - it just so happened I was holding her latest puppy at the time, & it was a great pic of the dog .

As long as his status says he's married then why worry?

DameFannyGallopsBEHINDyou · 27/12/2012 12:56

My fb profile picture is a rather taking dead pigeon. [helpful]

coffeeinbed · 27/12/2012 13:11

I have a picture of me and my dog.
Wonder how DH feels...

ThePinkOcelot · 27/12/2012 13:31

Jeez. Get a grip!!! Seriously?!

Anniegetyourgun · 27/12/2012 14:43

Remember, this is the infamous Mumsnet Relationships board, where "he's having an affair, leave the bastard" is the default response. If nobody is saying it, it does suggest that the evidence so far is not really very damning.

Think of it not so much that you're not good enough to be on his page, but that updating Facebook is not important to him. Which is how it should be for grown-ups IMO.

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