myself and my daughter were just going to have a nice quiet sophisticated ploughmans type lunch on christmas day and somehow it has now grown into, oldest son on his own cos his ex has the kids, so hes coming over for dinner, youngest son ,girlfriend and thier two kids coming for dinner, daughters ex and her two kids(kids live with him) for dinner so my one day off is going to be doing a big dinner for all at least it will be lively in mine anyone elses christmas day turned out better than they thought it would, hehe the joys of being a mum