I'm not sure if i am being supersensitive, or not. Me and much younger man, get on really well, started as a ONS, been out a few times, he stayed over for a weekend, had a fabulous time etc.. I dont actually want anything long term, just fun. Or so I thought.
In a couple of months time, there is a work do and I jokingly spoke about taking him along as my date as he would look amazing in his dress uniform and it would cause lots of gossip. He seems quite keen and has mentioned it a few times, and I've been going along with it. Taking him to this would actually be quite a big deal for me, so I thought maybe I should see what he is like with his friends. He had sort of mentioned something with a friend in another city this weekend, and at first I turned him down flat, but then thought that if i go along then I would see what he was like when he isnt with me. We have no friends in common and I've only ever met him when its just been the two of us. He has just texted to say that his friend whose place he will be staying the night hasn't got room for two of us on his sofa, but he will be along to see me on the sunday as per the original plan.
I'm feeling a bit rejected and taken for granted/a ride. Am I being oversensitive? or should I happily have him over the next day?
advice appreciated