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My hb and I have separated (for the second time), im not sure I ant a divorce

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bid2000 · 12/12/2012 20:03

Hello all, my husband and I have seperated for the second time and hes adamant he wants a divorce....thing is, Im not sure i do! It had been very tough for a few months and we'd grown apart and stopped comunicating. It got to the point where it was very angry and hostile....so he left about 2 weeks ago. Ive been very sad, but the more I think about it the more I think id like him back....worried im being silly and maybe should just let go...but i still love him...help!!!!

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amillionyears · 12/12/2012 21:19

You could try reading the book "Why Women Talk and Men Walk".
But not sure whether your relationship is too far gone for that.

bradyismyfavouritewiseman · 12/12/2012 21:34

The thing is, if one person wants the relationship to end. It ends.

I don't want to sound harsh, but if he is adamant then you are getting divorced.

You are best planning for it. Do you have kids? financial independence? Name on the deed to the house or tenancy.

DonkeysInTheStableAtMidnight · 12/12/2012 22:04

Hello sorry to bombard you with questions but just to clarify,

Do you have chilldren together?
Is there another person involved?
When you say for the second time, how long ago was the first split, did you agree to try again, what steps did you each take to repair and rebuild?

imdreamingofaskyebluechristmas · 12/12/2012 22:08

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