Having been "off the scene" for years (and years [grin]) I'm not sure how to tell whether someone is interested or not so wondered if anyone here could help. I've met someone through work. We do not see one another much (odd corporate set up, sales work) but have seen one another a few times over the last few months at various work socials and meetings where we have got on very well, lots of eye contact etc. Recently we have started to e-mail one another. Just day to day getting to know you kind of stuff, with a suggestion (from him) that we meet for lunch next time we are both in the same place. I don't know if he is just being friendly as I don't know if men do e-mail female work colleagues in the evenings, suggest lunch etc if they just want to be friendly. What is normal - any suggestions please [smile]. We are both divorced and (almost) middle aged [grin] not sure if the age is relevant but thought that I'd give as much information as possible [smile]