This board was recommended to me by a friend. hoping to get some answers.
I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year, she has a child from a previous relationship, I have no kids.
She's so hot and cold I dont know what she see's in it all, at first she was really enthusiastic about me moving in with her but then got cold feet saying that Im no good with money etc. She bases this on the fact that I bought a couple of mobile phones and the new xbox etc but the point is I have no other outgoings as I live with my parents still so why not spend the money I earn if there is nothing else to do with it?
She says my debt puts her off too but to me it just sounds like she's obsessed with money and thats all she cares about.
Then she said I was like her ex and boring, she bases this on the fact that I was playing on my new xbox when she was going on and on about a holiday, Id just spent £350 on it, of course Im going to be pre-ocupied with it but she couldnt see my point and as Ive told her im really not that fussed where we go on holiday.
She also allows her son to climb on me, poke fun at me and basically take the mick taking digs at my weight etc then when I get snappy she says Im being miserable with her son. I cant win.
And now she's getting at me because I left a few DVD's at her house and clothes and she says her house isnt big enough for me to leave stuff there??? but she wanted me to move in before? She also started a huge argument when I simply asked her to iron some trousers for me, she started going on about how she isnt my mother etc, I only asked her to do me a favour!
Is she seeing someone else or is she looking for a way out??