So last Christmas I was very ill after having my DD. My dad had moved in temporarily over Christmas to look after me and DD whilst DH was at work.
On Christmas Eve I was feeling a bit better so Dad went out to see his friends. He came home blind drunk and started a fight with DH. I was really quite scared. He ended up storming off after having a go at my DH.
He went off at midnight and didn't tell us where he was going. He was so drunk and it was absolutely freezing outside. He had left his phone at ours so we had no way of contacting him to see if he was okay.
Now I think this was really selfish and was so cross with him that on Christmas Day we woke up not knowing where he was or if he was hurt.
I've not seen him since that night. I know he's okay as he's been in contact with my sister.
I really don't want him being around my family if es getting so drunk and so aggressive .... But it's Christmas coming up soon and I do feel bad.
What should I do? I don't really want my DD growing to love him for him to get drunk and upset her. He used to do that when I was a kid :(