Ok, so my dh seems to be signed into msn at work but he is in Holland in a meeting. . . .

[Cadbury]

so what is going on? I know I'm suspicious when it comes to him but he hasn't been at work since Thursday evening and I had been chatting to him then and saw him log offline. He left for Holland in the small hours of Friday morning and has been there since. Is he playing me for a fool or am I completely loosing perspectiver here?

How do you know it is at the office? could he be signed in on a computer in Holland, and just not at the screen?

Yes, you can sign into msn anywhere. He could be online in holland.

He could be on line in a library, might explain why his mobile is switched off.

he has called.

he hasn't been online in Holland - he has been walking round anne franks house apparantly.

I will ask him about the computer at work - he needs to know that someone else is using it when the rest of the office isn't there at least.

I know I am being completely unrational. Its very easy to slip into this. I guess it just goes to show that I just don't trust him - even when things were seeming ok between us. I just wish none of this had ever happened or that I'd never found out. My head is completely screwed up

Sorry.

Cadbury. I can relate to how you are feeling. I hope it eases soon. xxx

thanks floss.

he is on his way back from the airport. not sure i want him to tbh.

i hate this.

I really don't think I know everything that has gone on but I hope you can try and enjoy tomorrow.

i alos have had someone log in as me and they cahnged my "seen-as" name!!!
changed pasword now etc scary though!!

cadbury - i havent had time to search your previous messages to know your back ground as i am on my way out the door - but to over react is created by an event - i know this. dont apologise and dont ever be embarrassed. just be thankful there was a good explanation. my fingers are crossed for you that everything is well. take care sweet heart.

Cadders. You do want him to walk through the door. Don't be daft darling. You're just feeling shaken cos of the doubts that filled you today. Remember what I said before. It will take time and soon it really be an almost forgotten memory.

This is the man he is now! Not then!

Glad it all turned out okay. No need to be embarrassed. Big hugs and kisses to you honey!