Why is it a blooming nightmare to make everyone happy? Dp and I want a quiet Christmas day with dd in our new house. We've made that crystal. We need to get round my parents who are local, his parents and grandparents who are 4 hours away and my sister an hour away (she's just had a baby so I'll def go to her not ask her to make the trip). Ordinarily, my sister, parents and I would all have Xmas eve or boxing day together but family domestics have got in the way of that. Roll on January!