AIBU to feel pissed off with BF

[VeryComplex]

We have been seeing each other 4 weeks.

We were chatting online tonight and he just logged of abruptly saying he had an early start.

(No earlier than normal, and normally he says it doesn't matter as he loves chatting to me). We are meant to be meeting tomorrow and he didn't mention it or confirm arrangements I am feeling used and mightily pissed off with him. I feel like telling him to go F*ck himself and ending it.

I called him and no reply. No answer to text either.

AIBU (or over reacting?)

Oh well good luck to you. It's all so intense though isn't it? I've been there done that and hate it when they go cool all of a sudden. Hopefully for you this isn't the case and he has a good reason? Perhaps his internet went down? And then he dropped his phone in the bath?

Have you met any of his friends/family yet? Or is it too soon?

Curious - no too soon, although I work with a mutual friend also.

It is hard when they 'go cool' - which is exactly how it feels :-(

I just feel in heart this is beginning of end.

Wait and see. I hope you sleep ok? Am off now night chick.

How are you today?

Yes OP what he did was rude.

He loves you and you haven't met?

He's leading you right up the garden path.

I wouldn't wait around here...... I'd be thinking NEXT.

And would have learned not to do all this squillions of contact from a dating site.

Sorry, I totally misread all that didn't I

You met at work - how many times have you seen him?

I'd say he's cooled right off and my NEXT still stands though.

Clipped - we've been out 7 or 8 times.
Skies - thanks for asking, am feeling less despondent!
Curious - thanks for your concern.

We met up today. His explanation for last night was that he suddenly got really tired and when that happens he just 'hits a brick wall' and needs to sleep. He said phone was on silent last night. He acknowledged I was feeling upset about it and said sorry.

So all is good then! Please stop worrying. It is early days, don't try and force it. If it is meant to be it will work out. Just relax and enjoy!

And fwiw last night I fell asleep on the sofa about 9pm, and when dp tried to get me upstairs to bed I was babbling incoherently so I can kind of empathise with being that tired!

VeryComplex, dont over analyse things, coz it'll just drive you crazy, i did many times and im learning just to shut up and stop it, its much better that way.