hi my ex p who I have 2 dcs with is wobbling about contact . We been split up only a wk my choice sick of the dv and rather than actually stating when and how he would like contact to b organised or asking how the dcs are etc he would rather have a pop at me all the time about my abilities as a mother the way in which I left him etc. the only thing on my mind is the dcs I just want them to b happy see their dad even though hes a self centred arse and move on and all he wants to do is be awkward . Now im thinking if he does see them should it b through a contact centre as im sure he will talk me down to them which upsets me cos im trying to b a good mum and I think Im doing ok my dcs are lovely im so proud but this is beyond frustrating x