OK, so i started a thread before about DH and his drinking and his mates and his work. Sorry i cant link. It's the only thread i've had under this name. I was worried because his work mates were drinking and taking drugs.
I got really good advice. I even followed some of it!
Very much in a nutshell DH has a problem with drink in that he cant resit it when it's on offer. He doesn't always drink to excess, but will always drink at least enough to get 'merry'. It doesn't take allot - 2 or 3 pints and he's loud and sleury.
I just don't know how to feel right now. In some ways things have improved - the drugs onsite problem have been sorted to some extent, but in some ways things are nosediving.
DH is drinking and driving at least once a week. He's at a work mates right now as the sites shut due to rain. Instead of coming home he's been round there since this morning. I've rung him. He sounds like he's had too many.
I'm worried. When i tell him i'm worried he says he's fine. How do i approach this with him? He knows how i feel - but i don't know how to go to the next step. I'm afraid of sounding like a fish wife or crying about it in front of him. If i get upset i just cant express myself.