d/h told me to grow up and not be so upset from him telling me to f 0 after i apparently dramatically called to him to watch d/d who had decided to get out of the car the wrong side. i put fear of God into everyone and i told him to f* o in street which i don't use and well i was very upset. "Just get in the car and f* o* " He is very reactionary thankfully i am not. we have made up ish but i am still very hurt at being accused in the wrong. 