HELP I'M IN NEED OF ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[babywhiting]

Ok here goes am 27 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child(other 2 children are from exH now going through divorce with him and fighting over contact orders etc) I met my now Dp on a dating site and was chatting to him for about 8 weeks before we decided to meet, On our first meet i glammed up and my 2 kids went to a friends for the night. Well that was the night i conceived so here i am 27 weeks pregnant with Dp child we are moving in together and away from my area!!
Kids are delighted to move he loves my kids to bits they call him "Daddy" and they adore him.
Anyway since we have not been together long i worry cos i was a size 12 b4 pregnant now im a whale and i worry as it is a new relationship and i feel im not sexy enough for him. sex is no issue but me being normally very upfront and not shy i have turned scared to go near him incase i look stupid by doing something wrong and end up having to stop by being uncomfortable!!!
i know this is long winded but any tips on how to feel good and flirting with him!!
please help i feel like i'm going to lose him even though he loves me to bits!!!!!
PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!! by the way im only 29!!

please!!!!!!! bump

its prob your hormones making you feel like this,if it helps i felt sooo insecure when i was pg although dp constantly reassured me,just think you are carrying his child&he most probably adores you,dont feel uncomfortable just be yourself well try,a good b.j always makes him think you are the most wonderfull woman in the world lol

Babywhiting, think it's natural to feel bewildered by changes in your body during pregnancy, and for this to be magnified by being in a new relationship where you are still getting to know each other. But you know what? I bet dp still thinks you are gorgeous. Loads of men actually fancy their partners more when they are pregnant - something to do with 'hey, she's carrying MY baby'. Honestly, I did a survey on this for a magazine once.

You could always try talking to dp about it, confessing your fears. Am sure he will reassure you.

thanks scoobytwo he's back again from London tomorrow night so will try it then!!!!!!!lol

and i would try to keep the romance going, even though you are up the duff!! Make sure you have time tgether alone, go out on dates. Try not to let the hum drum of babydum drag your releationsip down.

good luck!

Only time we get alone is when kids are in bed !!! hence the reason we are moving to be near his family so they can help and be with their first grandchild...!!! would so love a weekend together but not possible also my exH does not have the children!!