After months of things going wrong, nothing major, dh is a good dad, works hard etc. There are niggly things that annoy me, his total disrepect of my feelings (over argument with one of his friends), his parents lack of help even though we are struggling to pay childcare, his laziness, the fact he didnt get me a pressie from the kids for mothers day and said 'well you dont deserve one', his disgust at me being a student and not bringing home a 'proper' wage.
Last night we talked about divorce, neither of us seeing any other way out. He wont try relate and is unwilling to see my point of view about things because if I say 'you were rude to me' he just fires back 'well you were rude to me'!
I'm just so upset, I am not ready to be a single parent, I cant handle sharing the kids on Xmas and Birthdays, I know he will fight me for them and the house and I dont know what I am entitled to. I still love him and there is no-one else involved.
Just wondered if anyone could help 