How can i get my husband to talk to me again!

[JadaSevert]

Hi, my husband and i split over 2 years ago now, and i still can't get him to stand in the same room as me let alone have an adult conversation. I have tried to reach out when he has come to pick up my DS and asked him in for coffee etc when he has dropped them off. We went through a sticky divorce and we havent spoken properly since then. I want to be able to rebuild this relationship for the sake of our sons, it would be great to be able to do things as a family even though me and the dh couldn't work things out. Please help! how can i get this back on track! I would just love for my children to be able to see how adults should behave, not like children!
Thanks J
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thanks for the advice

I would stay civil, don't force friendliness, tbh if your ex isn't making things difficult with pick-ups or parenting issues, maybe accept that's as good as it gets?

you are lucky!

A lot of women would give rather a lot to have their ex not talk to them.

as long as you are polite, that's all you need to be