Been with my partner for 8yrs now. We have a 2yr old daughter. Im 32. He is 41.
Ill give a brief background of our history. We met when i had just broken up from a very physical and mentally abusive relationship. I thought he was amazing because he helped me through to get my mind back on track. I had no confidence etc etc.
i thought we were happy until his ex came back on the scene. Then he suddenly felt like he was unsure what he wanted. I moved back to my mothers and we still saw eachother but i found out he was sleeping with his ex and they went on holiday to barbados with eachother. She got preg and had a termination. You can imagine the hurt and pain i went through. Somehow we managed to get through it and stayed together. Then his father got ill with cancer and it was terminal. My partner wanted us to have a baby to show commitment to me and to his father that he was ok. His father died and never got to see our daughter. But when she cane it helped him theough his grief or do i thought.
About two weeks he started acting odd so i checked his phone. He had been having an emotional affair with a woman at his work snd they had kissed. Having a newborn i just didnt have the energy to deal with it so we rowed about it but had to look after my child.
We moved area to live near my mothers and was hoping it would be a whold new start. And it was.... We started trying for another baby but we have had three miscarriages in a row. We are trying to buy our home which is taking months... He works 24/7 so we hardky see eachother and now all we do is fight because of all the stress. When i try to say we need to sit and resolve our priblem he literally shuts down. Even slammed a door in my face tonight. He always sees the negative and never the positive. Im so sad and it seems he doesnt care to resolve it. Hes an amazing dad, amazing. I cant fault him.
How do i get him to fix us? I dont want my daughter to grow up in a broken home.