Making a sex tape...have you ever?

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Ok, my bf has suggested a few times about filming us. I'm not totally against the idea but I wouldn't want it to be seen by anyone other than us. I totally trust him not to show it to anyone or upload it anywhere but what other precautions could I take?

Has anyone here any experience of making one and how to keep it safe or is it just a completely mad idea?

Was it something I said?!

Your thread just reminded me that yes, we made one a few years ago (pre kids) it's on a random sd card somewhere in my knicker drawer! Might dig it out for a laugh!

Thanks for all the advice everyone and apologies for the late reply.

We've been together long enough for me to be confident that he wouldn't show anyone it's just the lost/stolen thing that concerns me. But then if there's only me that has it then only me to blame if anything happens to it I guess.

Good Christ!If I ever saw myself having sex I'd be so traumatised that I'd have to become celibate. < need to lie down just thinking about it >

Just thought I'd update

After having a proper chat with my bf about this I went with the majority of advice on here and decided it's too risky and just not really my thing and won't be doing anything like this ever.

I had an ex-boyfriend who secretly filmed us having sex. I had no idea at the time. He eventually confessed about two years later, but only AFTER one of his friends made some sort of comment about it (yes, the ex-boyfriend had shown his friends).

When we broke up, he promised to delete the video. I doubt that he did, though.

I was sooo skinny then, and my body looked so good (this was obviously before I had kids), so even if the video were leaked, it would be hard to be totally embarrassed.

i have in the past but not post dc

i know he watches them while he works away. i would rather that than some faceless porn.

i would again too if i ever list my baby weight. dont do it if you have any doubt though.

I did years ago.
It was ugly. No one should have to see that. Ever.

We have done this, in the heat of the moment, you know how it is (spraying ones nipples with squirty cream and raiding he vegetable basket seems like a good idea in the heat of the moment!). Then the minute we have both, well, you know, sorted each other out, we are like WTAF???? and delete it quick so that we never have to look at our wobbly bits bashing agian, yuck :)

Saying that, i am in a 20 year relationship i am 110% sure DP woudlnt be showing this to his mates, trust me!

I wouldn't take any films or photos that made me identifiable ever again after learning a very harsh lesson a few years ago. My boyfriend at the time and I had been messing around filming certain acts on his mobile phone which he then downloaded to his external hard drive. He worked for a pub/club thing at the time and ran karoake nights etc, they had a massive screen for showing football and song lyrics etc. He worked with a group of lads and lent one of them his external hard drive. I ended up on the big screen with everyone laughing at me. I was there at the time. Apparently I was a joke. I told boyfriend at the time to delete them. Fast forward a year and we'd split up.

3 years later I got a phone call at 2am with lots of drunken lads laughing and taking the piss and ex shouting in the background that he was sorry and they'd made him show them. He still had the videos and they were all having a great laugh at me.

And there is nothing I can do about it.

dino thats awful, thats just cruel.

i hope now they are gone.

Don't.

I did 'photos' with DH when I was younger,.

No idea where they are now :(

DinosaursOnASpaceship That's terrible, I'd be so embarrassed (and angry with bf) if it got in the wrong hands!