I have issues....I think

[Primrose1981]

Hello

I think I may have a problem. I am happily married woman of 17 years (I am 37) but for the past 5 years I have been sleeping with his brother.

I know its wrong but it's some what the forbidden fruit. Last week he asked me to renew our vows ( I said yes) and asked his brother to be best man.

What should I do? I feel so guilty!!??

How can he do a speech and I look the brother in the eye...oh my God I feel so alone!!!

Is this for real?!

Really?! Wow....maybe you shouldnt be renewing your vows but ending your relationship full stop?

it is for real.

I've been thinking I should but all his friends are now my friend, so I will be alone. As his brother will always choose him over me!! I only live in a small town and cannot move because of work!!!

You have 2 choices, stop fucking his brother or leave him....

Ditto !!!!

Yep, you definitely have issues. Hth.

Bit late to be having a crisis of conscience now, isn't it?

You need to leave them both and sort yourself out.

Why not get yourself on Jeremy Kyle ?

Happy Friday Primrose1981....how old did you say you were again??

Seriously?

Why would you agree to renew your vows when obviously the first time you uttered them they meant so little to you.

Good spot Bloomin :D

Op the fail for me was pointing out your age for no reason.

Absolute scumbag

Happily married, agreeing to the renewals of your vows (nevermind the fact you haven't stood by them the first time you made them), yet shagging his brother for 5 years?

Lowest of the low.

I hope to Christ that this isn't true. If it is, let your poor DH free to find someone who will love, cherish, and respect him enough to not betray him and who will actually stick by their vows the first time around.

"As his brother will always choose him over me!!"

Yeah... like he did when... oh never mind.