I started the other thread about sex not being the same after having a child. I basically wasnt in the mood for sex and felt completely uneasy every time dh touched me.Everytime we did end up up having sex which wasnt often I was always left disappointed and wondering why I bothered. Well the last few weks ive been getting earlier nights etc and making more time for myself so that I didnt just feel like a mum and wife. I started dressing more sexy and just basically trying to make me feel better about myself.
Anyway the earlier nights have made me more inclined to dh advances although my sex drive has still been low. I thought if I overcome the tiredness and actually started to make time and enjoy sex again that maybe id want it more. Well weve had sex everynight and I havent had an orgasm i feel like samatha from sex in the city 
. Dh has tried other ways too. I feel sometimes that im almost there and then its gone im feeling completely depressed over it.
Ive never had a problem before and i have had one since ds but just not in these last few months. At least well before xmas. Oh my god this is terrible.