Apparent doting husband and father of 12 year relationship with 9 year old twins and 15 year old step-son has left us out of the blue. There have been some significant financial problems after many years of money disappearing without trace on his behalf and I recently found yet another load of deceit. Anyway, confronted him and he then said the marriage was over and he was leaving us. He disappeared and surfaced a few days later but would not tell me why he was doing this.