"Next year I'd like us to consider moving in together" (few days later) "it's a bit soon to be thinking about moving in together!" - but YOU were the one that said it in the first place, not me!!
After a really, really good night together - "so, how do you think things are going between us?" (I reply all is good) he replies "yeah I think so too - we don't need to rush things do we and you know how much stuff I have going on right now, there isn't just us to think about" - and you tell me this after a great night together why exactly??
"I don't want to say things I don't mean - like I don't want to say 'I love you' if I don't mean it. I like you a hell of a lot - I think a lot about you - I do love you in a way, I do love you, of course I do" - so which is it then? you do or you don't??
"I'd really like us to go to America on Holiday next year together" (.... next day) "We can't think about holidays and stuff yet can we, we don't know what will be happening next year" - it was YOU that said it!!! not me!!!
"I don't mind you putting stuff on Facebook about me - it's about time we started doing stuff like that anyway - I need to change my relationship status to 'in a relationship'" - I reply - "ok, so you're ok with me changing my relationship status? I was going to do it last week but thought I'd better ok it with you first" - he replies "no of course not, do it! I'll do mine too" - next day, I change my relationships status on facebook - he goes quiet on me and I don't hear from him all day (unusual) turns out he's a bit freaked out that I changed my relationship status. WTF??? HE TOLD ME TO!!!
What the fuck is going on here because it's all doing my head in. I don't push him - it's HIM that mentions this stuff and then makes out that he's being pressured into doing stuff - but they're his ideas originally!!
Is he just fucking with me on purpose because I've really had enough. I don't have the headspace for this shit.