I realise it's very difficult to form an opinion of other people's relationships based on individual pieces of information but I would appreciate any thoughts on these incidents in a relationship between a 17 year-old woman and 20 year-old man:
The man sometimes gets upset by things his girlfriend says. On one occasion, he 'taps' her with his foot under the table when they are in company and she says something he doesn't like.
The couple are invited to the house of a friend of the man. 3 of his (male) friends are in the house. Hardcore porn is put on the TV and the men sit around watching it and discussing it. The young woman is unhappy about it and indicates her feelings to her boyfriend who does nothing about it.
The man has unusual sexual tastes and puts some pressure on the woman to try new things e.g. watersports.
The man expresses an interest in accompanying his girlfriend to the toilet and wants to change her tampon for her.
The man is unhappy that his girlfriend smokes. He sometimes hides her cigarettes or throws them away.
The couple argue at a friend's house while drunk. The woman stands up and her boyfriend pushes her back down into her chair.
While separated, the couple meet up and are in his car talking. He offers the woman money to give him oral sex.
Will stop there, otherwise this will become a much longer thread.
Any initial opinions or thoughts would be appreciated. Sorry if this is weird or TMI.