My so-called boy friend is a CUNT!

[Lazycah]

Just needed to vent!
Wattawanka!
He had the gall to drive into MY town today; laughing. Had his leaving do at MY social club and didn't fucking invite me. We texted at the weekend, no brush off, no invitation. Only found out today through a mate.
FFS! I'm 45; he's 47!!!!

So sorry, and I agree with you.

He is just not that into you. Find someone else who is.

How long have you been together? Is he nice to you when you are together?

howdoo Just needed to vent. we've been 'together' about 6 months. He's been nice, but I never felt comfortable with him. It doesn't really matter.
BUT, I brought him to my house and had sex with him, with DD(16) in the house.
That's a big thing for me! I need to trust someone before they come to my house.
I feel such a fool :(

he sounds like quite the weirdo.

You need to ask yourself why you brought a man you 'never felt comfortable with', but chose to override your instincts to a point where you claim to have 'trusted' him, to your home and had sex with him there.

You also need to ask yourself why you chose to do this while your dd was in the house.

If you don't want to come over as being 45 going on 16, I suggest you ditch this twat with as much dignity as you can muster which means vetoing the 'C' word when you tell him that, as he's failed to meet your exacting expectations in the bedroom deparment, he's history

LOL ^^ izzy and anyfucker are the ladies in the know and with just the right words :)

Perhaps it was a surprise party?

I'm sorry, I'm failing to grasp the cuntdom here. Is is because he went to your social club without you? Does he know it is yours?

Quelle surprise, kitty.

The man the OP has been in a relationship with for the past six months booked her local social club which, presumably, she introduced him to as a venue for his leaving do.

The only problem here is that the twat didn't have the courtesy to tell her about his plans nor did he invite her to his event which means that, if she hadn't been appraised by a mate in the interim, the next time she goes to her social club she could have been left looking like a prat taken aback when those she socialises with wax lyrical about his leaving do and ask her why she wasn't in attendance.

This type of scenario almost beggars belief and its only saving grace is that regulars on this board have heard read considerably worse.

So now OP you need ideas for revenge lol

Do you mean quelle surprise that I don't get it? That's not very nice.

I meant perhaps his leaving do was a surprise party and that's why he didn't invite her. Perhaps he didn't know about it. Just a thought. That's also why I asked if he knew it was her club; they haven't been going out that long, 6 months means different things to different people.

I mean 'quelle surprise' as in its literal translation 'what a surprise', kitty and, in this instance, it's the OP that's had an unnecessary surprise.

Given the remote possibility that another party booked the OP's local social club to hold a surprise leaving do for him, he would no doubt have been advised of where to present himself at a certain time and he was, equally no doubt, able to either invite the OP to accompany him beforehand or, at the very least, let her know about the event on the night before she found out from a mate.

He's exhibited twattism of a high order and, except for the fact that the competiton for Twat of Year, as is that of Twunt of the Year, happens to be particularly fierce for the 2012 awards, he'd automatically be placed on the nomination list for his dedication to the cause.

As it is, he's an also ran and the OP is advised to run away from him as fast as her legs will take her.

Unceremoniously ditching the twat using the wording suggested above Living well will ensure that the OP gets revenge the great god karma is served, Things

Thanks for your replies.
I was just venting and feel better for it.
I'm a bit hurt and disappointed. Should know better at my age.
Didn't expect any life changing advice or wanted any. I have to accept that 16 yr olds never really grow up.
He's a cunt for behaving like a teen; I'm a cunt for allowing him some fucking head space.

Of course you're hurt and disappointed but never think that you should know better at your age, honey, because life's a learning curve and the only time you'll stop learning and growing is when you're dead from the neck up

The long and the short and curlies of it is that he's not worthy of you and all you need to do blow this twat out and call 'Next'

I love Izzy she always gives great advice!

Op how did you find out this had taken place? Did he tell you himself? I would be hurt too and would have to dump the fucker (in the style Izzy suggested) immediately! Don't feel like a cunt Lazycah you're not. HE is though!

This leaving do was for his work I'm assuming? If so, was it colleagues only or were partners permitted? Even if it wasn't open to partners it's odd he didn't mention it though.