My partner of 19 years left me and out 3 children in January saying he doesn't love me anymore. Over a period of time he has rented a house - and furnished it. The children stay with him twice a week. I have asked him to come home several times telling him I love him and want to make things work but he is adamant he doesn't love me. I felt over the past month or so i was getting my head around things when he turned up at my door yesterday to tell me he has met someone else (and didn't want me to find out from anyone else). I feel like he has ripped my heart out - I feel sick all the time and cant eat. I spent all last night awake thinking about him and i feel like im going insane. I know i cant make him love me, but i want to know how can i stop loving him - i hurt so much