my husband

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husband is away on IT course with his work, came gone on sat Till mon till he went on new course

Last night he got a txt (left his phone at home) saying " Tracey is getting shagged all over"
yesterday I seen he had requested Tracey on fb

Spoke to him tonight saying "everything ok"

he says yeah all boring as usual. I say oh did you go out last night, he days no. I then say-bet traceys feeling rough this morn considering she was shagged last night"

his first response was "how do you know that"

just had massive argument with him on phone over-

him requesting her as fb friend
him saying she was a nice woman-that's why he requested her

apparently she's married with kids

I'm uneasy about him being there with these people who are "being shagged"

don't know if I completely trust him

I told him I would be sending traceys husband a msg trllng him what she had been upto

He has said I have no right to do this,
I feel that none of this is my doing,

I feel husband and Tracey have been upto no good.

What do I do??

whoaaa !

Tracey might have been getting shagged but I think it points away from your H that it was him doing the shagging

I really don't think you should inform her partner either

just hold on here

now, I would be well pissed off that my H was obviously "in" on this to a certain extent (ie. someone messaged him to inform of the dodgy behaviour of his colleagues....I mean, why the fuck does he need to know and why is he interested ??) but you don't know it was him, fgs

Ewww on the FB update. Sounds very childish but nothing to worry about with regards to him actually doing anything with her.

Don't see why you would think it was your husband and her 'shagging all over' just sounds like some really juvenille bollocks to me. I think sending to to her husband would be overkill.

Probably be a good idea to have a word with your husband about joining in such childish crap though.

do you feel rough after a shag? I usually feel better

sorry that was for 'tracey'

O_o

yeah defo sounds like was not him, else surely he would know exactly how tracey was getting shagged

any update ?

If he was up to something he would have kept his phone on him.

Why are you checking his messages?

I wasn't checking them, it flashed up on his phone.

I spoke to him early this morning, and he's told me in being daft, obv not him that's shagging this Tracey bird.

realise now that I was prob blowing this out of proportion but I'm still having a niggling feeling about him being away with people that shag each other at the drip off a hat.

I must just need more sleep or somet :)

well, if your H is joining in with this immature twattery, I would have some questions too

I certainly wouldn't have much respect for someone who indulged in being amenable to receiving texts like "Traceys getting shagged"

He's saying "it's not my fault someone else txt me something"

I can sort of see what he's saying, but...

it doesn't sit right.

you must have to make it quite clear you are willing to receive that sort of text

so he is tacit in the twattery to some extent

he should distance himself from it properly if he was any kind of mature individual...apparently he is not

He's home tonight,and I've told him we need to talk about this.

I agree with him making it clear that he's willing to recieve Thais sort of text, I think he sometimes with the line of his work makes out he'd "one off the lads"

That I don't mind,but not to this extent, if people think he wants to know this I'd he isn't being loyal by making it clear that he's happily married with children, that's what isn't sitting right with me.

to a woman,we would say this and expect it to be received the way it was meant, but he won't understand why I want the people he works with to think the same thing??

I want him to understand the whole thing I'm saying but don't think he will.

how do I go about it pls?
Thanks