hi everyone. basically i have been with my fiance for 8yrs (childhood sweethearts) and have a 3month old dd. when i was pregnant i completely lost my sex drive. i would cringe when df would touch me at all. i know some women go.sex mad during pregnancy but i was the opposite. after a traumatic birth i am beyomd terrified of getting intimate again BUT the biggest problem is i still feel the same when.he tries to be intimate with me. i cringe at his touch and im so in love with him but i really feel the attraction has gone, on my part. he obviously feels like crap cause i push him away and try and make excuses but i dont know why i feel like this. i would be quite happy to never have sex with him again bit why? has anyone experienced anything like this? :'( :'( :'(
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scared of sex after birth and complete loss of attraction :-\
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worldofmyown · 09/09/2012 13:10
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