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My DP doesn't understand me

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riamay2011 · 08/09/2012 21:32

Me and my DP argue quite frequently over the stupidest of things and to be honest I'm now getting very tired and annoyed with them. All weekend he has promised to do something with us and the girls so yesterday he told me that today we would wake up early and take them to the beach didn't happen which I was fine about on the way home from this pub we went to instead he said tomorrow we will get up early and go to the car boot then his bro text and says hes doing a car boot and so DP cancels plans with me and says he's going with him I said you go then I'll just stay at home with the girls and I go downstairs to make the bottles for DD. he then comes down ignoring me. I asked him and he said its because I have the arse when things don't go my way??? Wtf!? I was fine and told him I was fine he then goes on about if I dont stop taking to him like that he will knock me out!??? To cut a long story short he's always saying I'm this I'm that when I'm not and it causes a argument. I'm sick of this all now every time I try and make things better he makes it soo hard he's so stubborn. Wwud?

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2girls2dogs · 08/09/2012 21:35

He said he will knock you out?? Id pack him a bag he sounds vile vile vile

AttilaTheMeerkat · 08/09/2012 21:40

What do you get out of this relationship now?.

Is this the relationship model you want your DDs to follow because this is what they are learning from the two of you.

I would end this emotionally abusive relationship asap as he is only now dragging you down with him. This is surely not the life you want for yourself.

izzyizin · 08/09/2012 21:41

He's going to 'knock you out' if you 'don't stop talking to him like that'?

Before he knocks you out, I suggest you lock him out. As he's going off with his db, tomorrow would seem to be an excellent day to change the locks, pack his stuff, and leave it on the doorstep.

izzyizin · 08/09/2012 21:43

Jeez, is there something in the water?

Even for this board, there's seems to have been an abnormal number of knuckle-dragging twunts around over the last few weeks.

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