Blue Pills - don't know if my reaction was ok or not

[snotsucka]

Boyfriend and I have been together about 3 months. I always knew there was something going on sexually as he seemed able to have sex all night, could get an erection literally 5 minutes after sex - sometimes never even lost the erection after ejaculation. I never mentioned it.
Last night however he said he had something to tell me and that was that he sometimes takes blue pills (like viagra for those that don't know). He said he felt like he was being dishonest in not telling me and letting me go on thinking he was some kind of stud.
My reaction was "ok, still think you're a stud though. You want a cuppa?"

He seemed a bit confused at my reaction. Now I'm thinking "shit, was I too casual about it? is it a big deal? should I have asked questions?" now I don't want to bring it back up incase it's become a touchy subject!

I know men are funny about stuff like this but loads of guys take them don't they? I know my ex did.

Umm, no I don't think "loads" of men take them OP, or they shouldn't for no apparent reason apart from wanting to be some sort of king dong, which would put me right off. Maybe you need to ask him why he takes them.

Well my ex took them because he struggled to maintain an erection. I'm assuming this is why current man takes them?

Why assume? Why not just say ' for what reason do you take Viagra? '

I don't think it's one of those situations where you can make him a cup of tea and get straight to the point ay OP

Seeings as he did bring it up, maybe next time, after a bit of you know what, you could ask?

The poor man most probably spent days working up the courage to tell you that his longevity in the bedroom department is not due to tantric sex natural ability

FWIW, I suspect he's feeling mighty relieved you reacted as you did and your reassuringly laid-back take on it has paved the way for either of you to return to the subject at some later date, or not as the case may be.

If he's getting his little miracle workers blue pills without prescription, you'll be doing a service to many if you can name them, and possibly the supplier, here

i think i would want to know why?! i don't think it's that common, how old is he? but your reaction was not a wrong one, like a pp said,at least it's open for discussion now. I would discuss it.