Should I tell him about the money? if not, when?

[EarPicker]

I've been seeing someone about 4 months. We get on brilliantly and always have a lot of fun, lots of cuddles, lots of laughs - I'm really enjoying it and he is too.

A couple of weeks ago however I won a few million on the lottery. He doesn't know. Nobody does. I want to stay with him but obviously this changes my life significantly and will change his too if we stay together.

I'm paranoid that if I tell him now, he may want to stay with me for the money regardless of whether he feels we're right together. I need to know 6 months down the line that he's with me for me and not the money.

But if I don't tell him, when do I tell him??

Interesting. Id be posting "I won the fucking lottery!!!!" rather than about the possible impact on a very new relationship.

I would dump him and spend the next twenty years cougaring

Why not ring your winners' adviser for, well, advice?

if you think it's goling to be a massive problem I'll take it off your hands.

oh - and Leave the bastard.

Does anyone believe a word of this? If someone has never told anyone about a major win, wouldn't they say, "I won a lot of money" or even "I won some money"? Saying "a few million" sounds very casual to me.