Ex says I have given him an STI

[isitmeorhim]

We finished about 3 weeks ago. He has form for being hurtful and manipulative.
I got a text this morning asking if I had any problems down below. I replied NO, why? He texted to say that since his return from holiday (week before last, he went with his kids) he has a bad rash on his penis.
We were together over year. In that time I have not had any sexual relationships with anyone else.
If I have given him an STI I will be so upset. I have no symptoms and I have no history.
Im not sure why I am posting this, Im upset already.

Thanks beryl. Me too. Im getting stronger. I know that he the "ive other problems but I am not going to tell you" is part of his manipulation.
I kept it very brief and said that I hoped all his health issues are soon resolved.

I personally would assume he has been shagging and is blaming you, or has got thrush or something and is being hysterical.

Its the latter. He said the doc told him it was a mild skin reaction to something.
Its indicative of him to contact and partially blame me before his diagnosis (that wasnt), then tell me he has other problems that need investigation "but is not going to divulge them to me" and say even though it was nothing, he needed to tell me as he was sure I was sleeping around.
He could have: got himself checked out......and said nothing to me as it was nothing.
Or...got himself checked out and IF it was an STI he could have told me.
Sorry for rant.

I think I wouldn't of told him you had been screened and got the all clear..

"Oh you got the all clear, good, as that means I dont have to get checked out now" and leave it at that

He just wanted to 'see if you cared' which, alas you do not.. hehe .. good riddance to extremely crappy potentially needy rubbish IMO