oh lying to me

[GROOVEYCHICK]

hi all i've been with my oh for 5 years and in this time he has told me lies one being it was a rumuor that he was the father of a girls baby he denied sleeping with but then found out he was the father and lots of other things .
The other day i had funny feeling that he was talking to someone on fb a bit much if that makes sense .
He was sat right by me msging her but told me he was on e bay . he was on his phone and i logged into his account on laptop.
He then said he was tired and wanted to go home then stayed talking till 3 am after leaving mine at 10
He told her he was single and she was pretty and asked her to send pics
After conversation with her he deleted all his msgs and told me it was a virus but i forwarded them to me .
Im so angry ihe says he loves me but how coould he do that if he did?

i dont think im overreacting but what do you guys think ? xx

No, you aren't overreacting. He is planning to cheat on you. What do you want to do about it?

i already told him its over but he ssays ive not done anything wrong x

and wants me to forgive him x

Of course he wants you to forgive him, he wants to have his cake and eat it.

I'd have removed his things when I saw the chat. No way is that acceptable - blatant lies and disrespect, and he tried to get pictures from another person...

He's hardly a catch.

He's not done wrong, but evidence indicates he was planning to. Cut and run to save yourself the pain.

I think he is a dirty liar and his pants are on fire, that is what I think

I think he should stay dumped, then he get message as many girls as he wants. Perhaps he will even persuade one of them to shag him if he keeps trying hard enough.

Stupid man

He says he hasn't done anything wrong but he wants you to forgive him too.

He isn't even very good a lying is he?

no he forgets what he lies about .
what hurt most was him msging her in same room then going home and carrying on till 3 am x

This is what he's like and you're well rid.

Now all you need to do is make sure you stay well rid of this lying and deceitful piece of gobshite.

I think he'll keep lying to you and probably cheat on you, for as long as you're together.

So I think you know what you need to do.

Good luck!

thanks guys xx

If I were you I would read your posts back to yourself pretending it was a stranger who had posted. What would you say to her?

I don't think he "forgets" what he lies about. I think he "edits" what he tells you. You have posted what you know to be true. What else will you find in the future he has selectively chosen to reveal or not?

It would be game over for me after the lies about fatherhood. What kind of person "forgets/lies about" their own child?

You deserve better than this Groovy. Tell him to sling his hook.