Well me and my other half have had a few problems in the past but he proved whilst we've been together he hasn't been anything but loyal.
He has acted in a bad way after i ended it with him and lied about this stuff when
We got back together, hence the part of me that finds it hard to
Trust and believe what he says.
I do understand why he lied, probably more to avoid the converstation more than anything else but another thing that he eventually admitted was that he had joined a few dating sites in this time.
We had a big row about it, I asked him how long after we broke up he joined them he said he didn't know and when
I went to work he logged in to get the date of the last time he logged in.
Now, I've looked through it and he says it was one he had joined tears before he met me however he updated his profile etc when we broke up.
This sounds like it could be true as the pictures are clearly fairly old however the profile was recent ( I know this as he changed jobs )
Now, I keep wondering if he joined this whilst we were together ;-(
There's a support email I could contact and ask and in my head this would clear up the doubt however in my heart I want to believe him and start to trust him again and I don't think constantly checking up on things he's told me and going to extremes of contacting dating sites to see the join date is going to help
Us.
What would you do and honestly do you think I'm ridiculous for even considering it??