Thank you

[everybodywalkthedinosaur]

Have name changed.

I just want to thank you all for your advice and support in regards to my MIL.

I am still waiting for an apokogy 10 weeks on! So she hasn't seen DD in all of that time, DD is 13 weeks old. It's her choice. I won't ever be friends with her, but I'd meet her (with DH) somewhere neutral if she apologised! But she is very obviously incapable of doing so. I'm doing the right thing for DD and myself.

DH has had a revelation and said to me that it's all about her. Sadly he's still enabling her behavior by running to her whenever she clicks her fingers. But if you've been treated that way for a lifetime it's a hard habit to break.

I just don't understand why she won't apologise!

Can you link to the thread, OP?

My point is, wouldn't you apologise so that you'd see your DS happy with his little family?

All the time your DH is 'running to her whenever she clicks her fingers' she doesn't have to do anything, unfortunately. He will have probably said you are just a bit 'stressed out with the baby' and that you'll 'come round eventually' or 'it's her hormomes'.... that kind of thing, making excuses for you. I don't know what the apology you're waiting for is, but you won't get it if he's not supporting you.