I'm in a new relationship....maybe 3 months in. He's fantastic, totally fantastic but for one issue. He finds it really hard to orgasm and I don't. If he does at all it's a long time after I have (and they are usually earth shattering and very early on). I?ve talked about it with him before, but he just doesn?t seem bothered when he doesn?t ejaculate?but I do. It makes me feel selfish! I really want the relationship to work and I think it?s important that we?re both sexually satisfied.
I am sure there is more I could be doing to help ? with past partners I?ve always been a bit passive/lie back and think of England, but he makes me feel so good that I want to be a bit more ?active?. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I 1. can feel more confident in taking the lead and 2. broach the subject with him again?
He is taking anti-depressants which is probably contributing a lot. But, asdide from that, I am feeling a little lost and totally inexperienced and sure I am doing something wrong.