Concerned about strange things written on DH's stuff

[paranoidregular]

I was tidying up and I came across a sticker among DH's personal belongings that had something strange written on it. I asked him what it was and he said some woman at work had made an innuendo about him and then written it on a sticker. I thought this was odd. A while ago he said there was another woman who kept touching him at work.

For various different reasons we don't get to spend as much time together as we/I would like so i hate the idea of him going to work and to have various women hitting on him. Sometimes married men are flirtatious with me and I always ignore this, but I would absolutely never make (even tongue-in-cheek) advances towards a man I knew was married and had children.

So do you think I should be worried?

i don't know... do you trust him?

my dp sits next to a girl at work who keeps writing on his arm... it kind of irritates me, but I trust him 100% and even if she was flirting with him I don't think he'd realise!! lol

I do trust him but the idea of people hitting on my husband while he is at work is not something I relish.

A similar thing happens to dh at work. His office regularly employs temps and a few of them see dh as an easy target - despite the wedding ring and the photos of his children on his desk. They eventually give up when dh ignores the behaviour. Still irritating though.

paranoidregular there is absolutely nothing you can do about the behaviour of other people where your husband works.
Try not to let it wind you up, it sounds very childish to me, more like they haven't got enough to do at work, rather than a major attempt to seduce your dh.
Enjoy the time you have with your dh, and if you trust him then don't worry about silly women with their juvenile little stickers at his workplace!

Thanks. I know other people have much worse relationship problems than this. I wouldn't be so bothered if I spent more time with him. That's the issue I need to address I suppose.

yeah, maybe you need to find a way to get some quality time together once a week or something... just the 2 of you.
or maybe a night out if you can get a babysitter?