A rant mainly
Ex and I broke up at the beginning of the month. I suspected for a while that something wasn't quite right with a 'friendship' with one of our colleagues (he reassured me that she was just 'one of the lads' - she admitted she can't be friends with women) and my instincts turned out to be correct.
We all worked together, they've now moved onto different places. I'm still in the same location. What's now coming out of the woodwork is the extent to him putting it about 
. It turns out he approached several people and asked if they wanted to go out, to meet up with them for sex etc. At least one I know turned him down, but she can barely look me in the eye now.
While I'm finding all of this out, the twit has been texting me (even though I told him there would be no contact). The first text was a guilt-ridden 'I'm sorry about everything, I don't expect a reply to this, hope you're ok' and the second a week later was some jovial-jolly 'hey, I was in x-shop, oops, wistful texts are not allowed!' I didn't reply to either, except the temptation is there to tell him to cock off.
I'm still quite hurt by everything, I know I have to go easy on myself as it hasn't even been three weeks yet, but it hurts me knowing he was never interested in a relationship with an emotional connection. He just uses women to boost his ego (former fat person who didn't get laid until his 20s). Not many people we worked with liked him. I was silly enough to give the benefit of the doubt thinking he was misunderstood. Trusting my gut next time
Thanks for reading :)